Monday 28 November 2011

Adopting my balls of fur



Around six years ago my life took a bit of a turn - I returned to being single and living alone in my apartment, a home I had previously shared with my husband. I started to feel lonely in the large space, so my support network who where my closest friends suggested that I get a Pet.

I hadn't had a pet in a very long time, in my adult hood my then fiancée and I tried to keep a fish aquarium but it didn't last much and in my younger years I had a Hamster called JJ who had a knack of finding a way to get out of his cage and nest behind the living room wall unit among all of my father's stereo system wiring.... JJ never got short circuited but dad did a few times.... JJ lived with us for a couple of years as hamsters do.  After JJ I had a pet duck which we kept in our yard - mum wasn't Donald's biggest fan since it is a messy pet ... Donald was evicted and he moved with his cousins in the country side in Wardija in a large enclosure with a real pond, real rocks and several huts .... He lived happily there until old age.  

That's about as much experience as I have with pets.... I can’t recall how many times I tried to smuggle puppies and kittens into dad's car at the end of our Sunday visits at grandpa's in Wardija ... but mum would smell the animal in the car, start a hissy fit and dad would have to turn back and take a crying me and a sad little fur ball back to where I'd nicked it ... unhappy days...

Now that I'm older I understand why mum wouldn't let me keep the pet, I wasn't responsible enough to take care of it and its need.

Well this time round things are different; I live alone, I'm the queen of my castle and I'm going to get a pet!  A dog was my first choice, due to its loyalty, the fact that having a dog would mean I would do more exercise, I could interact with the dog and play games with it, but there again; I live in an apartment, a large one but nevertheless it’s an apartment, with no garden, no access to the outdoors except for two balconies & I'm on the second floor.  I also always worked long hours so the dog would be alone for 10 hours to say the least Monday to Friday.  It would certainly be a selfish act to get a dog ... Dog idea scrapped, the next best thing is to get a cat ... I never liked the idea of having a pedigree pet, there are so many homeless adoptable animals why should I pay someone to buy a fur ball when I can adopt one, give it a home and spend the money otherwise spent on a pedigree to feed and keep the animal healthy. I was browsing Animal Shelter websites and wrote to one in particular stating my interest in homing an abandoned cat or possibly a kitten.

A few days later I received an email informing me that the sanctuary had a pregnant cat and she was expected to give birth in a few days, was I interested in adopting a kitten? - Well of course I'm interested!!!  In a matter of days the cat gave birth to a litter of 11 kittens and I was invited to go pick a kitten which I would be homing 6 weeks down the line.

remember driving down to the south of the Island and getting to the address of the volunteer who had taken the cat to her house so that the kittens would be born in a "home" environment and litter trained to facilitate adoption.  when I got to the house there were a couple of cats outside in the garden and I could hear several others indoors ... when the door opened I was greeted by some 30 or so cats and an overwhelming smell - the house was extremely clean but the cat smell was overpowering .... I recall turning to my friend and telling her - "will my flat smell like this?"  She was one of my closest friends and the brain behind my adoption program "NO" she replied pointing out that I was about to adopt ONE cat and not thirty ... she as right and I was being paranoid.

The lady who I had made arrangements with led us through the house while eyes from all the corners where checking us out, some cats started hissing, some cats where maimed, while others strolled with us and rubbed their lovely coats against our legs ... I was feeling quiet excited to see the litter of cats.  I had already decided that I would rather adopt a male cat and his name was already half chosen but I still had to meet him so I kept the name to myself (and thank God I did thinking about it, it was a ridiculous name).

We got to a room which looked like a storage/washroom which housed another 10 or so cats and in a corner in a box there was a beautiful ginger cat with 11 tiny fur ball kittens most of them suckling while others sleeping in a corner of the box all huddled up to their mother.  The lady explained that the cat had 11 kittens which had all survived but they seemed to come from two different males - she invited me to pick one of the kittens and eventually after 6 weeks I could come and collect it.  One kitten was all by itself close to its mothers tail shaking in the cold he was grey with white and had a lovely spot on his nose ... I immediately decided that that cat would be coming home with me, the lady politely asked me to make a second choice....I was baffled, she explained that he seemed to be the weakest of the litter and might not make it since he wasn't drinking as much as the others.  I was a bit surprised I was still holding the little creature in my hand and he did seem smaller then his siblings, now that I compare but still.... I didn't make a second choice and told her that if he didn't make it in six weeks time we will see.

She was a very nice lady and promised me she will keep a close eye on it and give it extra attention to make sure it survives.

Six weeks can be a long time to wait ... I called her very often, I think I was bugging her a bit but I was worrying about my little grey ball of fur ... her updates where that he was improving but remains the smallest of his siblings.

I visited a pet shop and started buying stuff for the kitten, I got him a small bed, a food and water bowl, and I bought a book about taking care of cats and researched the most suitable food on the market...a friend also helped me build a cat scratcher so it had my personal touches.

Time to drive back to the house of 30 cats and pick up my companion ... armed with treats and a cosy blanket which I had kept in bed with me the previous nights so that it would get my scent ... just as the book said!  My friend had to drive my car all the way since I was too excited to be behind the wheel - We finally arrived, this time the smells didn't bother me I homed into the storage/washroom walking slowly behind the lady who had arthritis in her legs and had difficulty walking, I could have carried her into the back room just to get there faster!

The kittens where all over the room meowing away, some where eating others playing, but there was no sign of my grey kitten ... what happened??? He was trying to get to the food bowl but all the other kittens where trampling over him and he seemed to have given up.  The lady picked him up gently and gave him to me; he was so tiny compared to the rest ... his head looked huge compared to the thin body.  She explained that she had been feeding him with a bottle for the first weeks since he was never getting to his mother for milk and then she was weaning him to kitten food but he was still not eating as much as the other kittens.  While I was holding him he was shaking in my hands he wasn't kicking a fuss he just curled up and blinked at me through sticky eyes.  In the meantime at the far end of the room there was a little ball of fur screaming her mouth off sounded louder than all the other cats and seems to be somewhat angry at me.... what was her problem?

The caretaker explained that she had been "mothering" my kitten for the past weeks, she seemed to have grown attached to him and although she was from the same litter she gave the weakest kitten a lot of attention.  She also told me that she still didn't have high hopes for my kitten and that I should make a choice to adopt another one so that I wouldn't be heart broken if it didn't make it.

I was having none of that, and made up my mind to take two kittens not because i was afraid my grey one wouldn't make it but I wanted it to have some company when i went to work, so I asked the lady to get me the screaming kitten.  She was Calico with a white belly and round face ... her coat seemed fluffier then the grey one in my hand.  The female cat kicked up a fuss, scratching and screaming.... hmmmm.... we put them both in the cat box to see the reaction and she calmed down.... the decision was made - I adopted both of them.

Will huddled up on the left and Grace checking something out on the right - 6 weeks old 

When I got to the car I was still overwhelmed with the abrupt decision that had just taken place and the fact that I had never cared for a cat, let alone two ... oh well what goes for one should go for the other as well I suppose.  My friend asked me what I was going to call the two cats now.  Hmmm I had only thought of one name which I had decided to scrap.  At the time I was an avid fan of the sit com on TV – Will & Grace – and then the cats with no name where called .... Will & Grace, I was on my way home with two little fur balls a beautiful Calico cat with a pure white belly and a gold heart on its sternum she was called Grace while Will is tabby patterned also with a pure white belly.

Once we got home, Grace immediately ventured out of the cat box to look around and explore, always keeping a close eye one me.  Since Will didn’t come out I got him out and put him on the floor to see how he would react to this new environment – he waddled close to the sofa I was sitting on and looked up, which I understood as a message that he wanted me to carry him up onto my lap – that’s where he spent the next first hours of his first day living with me, while Grace on the other hand perched herself in a corner without taking an eye of me or Will!  I had a strange feeling of being watch.  After a while I placed some food in their food bowl and Grace immediately paddled off to inspect what was on offer and from the crunching it became clear that she approved. Will had some soft food and after a couple of hours both little kittens where exploring the living room, kitchen and venturing into the corridor as well.

Our adventure had begun ....

















....the story of Will & Grace continues .....

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